Sunday, May 3, 2009

friends network

i've been busy the past week or two, doing some car paperwork (updating my license, etc) and doing some more things that have to do with moving to a new apartment. i've also been talking on the phone to several people and emailing people. communicating with new (and old) friends is becoming a full time job. i keep forgetting who i've talked to and who i haven't, and i have all these little slips of paper with notes written on them. i keep warning everyone that it might take several weeks to respond to an email, just because it requires mental focus for me to write an email to someone i don't know very well. i am still suffering from 'yes man syndrome' - too many yeses to too many people. too many confusing new obligations and dates and times and names. i don't have a secretary.

i was thinking about delegating my friendships to other friends. maybe i could tell some of these people to talk amongst themselves instead of to me. i'm only halfway joking, the other half is serious. i was wondering how to network people at a distance: how do you tell someone, 'do exactly what i'm doing, but do it someplace else, and then network with me to share our results?' for instance how would i start a work-exchange group in another town, without actually meeting the people myself, or going there to see them? i would just have to describe the idea and encourage somebody else to care about it. somebody else would do their own group and customize it to their local area.

i don't have time to write much more - i have to go to work. i mean, the work where i get a paycheck.

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