Disagreement

What happens when these duals disagree? Is the disagreement important or trivial? How does it affect our decisions? How do we respond to attacks on the "vulnerable functions," the functions we are insecure about? What am I myself vulnerable about, and will I be attacked in return? What don't I know or see about myself? What am I blind and ignorant about? How do we settle the disagreement? Do we learn to ignore it? Can we identify what exactly is the disagreement and find out whether we even disagree at all?